For the cause of writing, you are going to have to concede three things:
1.) Words are what you will do forever.
2.) There will be always something to write.
3.) See #1.
With Love & Ink,
For the cause of writing, you are going to have to concede three things:
1.) Words are what you will do forever.
2.) There will be always something to write.
3.) See #1.
With Love & Ink,
The writer you want to be you are able to become.
Read that again.
With Love & Ink,
Watch for the miniseries AUDIENCE VS. PUBLIC next month.
The most essential thing I am learning to do as a writer is to show up for myself.
Like really show up for myself! In the creative rooms I have created and have access within. In the spaces I’ve been invited to show up in— and all that powers it.
And sometimes that show up means telling people who I am creatively — and resting those successes and learning from those failures!
The show up helps me to grow up. The more I show up, get comfortable telling people who I am, the easier it becomes to honor my own talent— and not envy the successes of other people.
Before you get discouraged:
If you don’t write it down, who will?
With Love & Ink,
I hope this month, the month before the half way point of the year, has been good to you.
Remember this:
1.) You are able to do this.
2.) You have everything in you to create.
3.) Create what you want first.
4.) Re-read #1.
With Love & Ink,
For this great cause of writing, you must first believe that you can — so you will.
With Love & Ink,
I believe the mature artist is willing to admit they are the eternal student— they consistently wonder how they can (or must) improve.
In that process is maturing, or growing up, what I think is crucial to know (and keep close to you) is to remember the critical who critique YOU rather than your WORK, are disingenuous readers. Those who engage the work, and their criticisms show that, their critique has merit, and should be considered.
A key I have learned is not everything is for everyone — but everything I write is for me first.
With that first thought, I must realize the work I want to create must be dependent on my own talent and strong enough to withstand what people may think of it— ie because art is subjective, I must be able to understand an observation and ignore when need be.
Do I get it right all the time? No. And I assure you neither will you. The goal is to create the work you want, endure the criticism you must, while striving to be better.
You are your own competition. Not the faceless internet.
The only person who has the power to take away your pen is you.
It is easy to slide into that level of disbelief— and it starts with these 4 words:
“I can’t do this.”
And with that the door is cracked. The draft has come in. Then you have a choice: will you open the door to doubt or will you shut it in faith— and try again?
With Love & Ink,
Don’t be scared to begin— be more scared of being buried with it.
Go write.
With Love & Ink,
This may be a longer essay. Watch this space. -JBH
There are 5 things I think which make writers stop (aka give up their pen):
1.) Writing what people think you should rather than what you want.
2.) The erasure of your identity: there is a need to writers who do not look like those of the Master Narrative. If you are not cis, het, white and male— your story is needed.
3.) The lack of time. You’d be surprised how many people quit because they don’t have time.
4.) Believing other people when they tell you that you can’t — or tell you that you are better suited to another genre.
5.) Not believing you can. This is more detrimental than you think.
Sometimes continuing is resistance.
RESIST.
With Love & Ink,